Priorities
How Will This Session Help Me??
Between homework and tests, sports, family commitments, hobbies, and social life, it can feel like everything needs to be done at once! Setting priorities isn't about doing every single task immediately or ignoring the things you enjoy; it’s about making smart choices about where to give your time and energy. By learning how to rank your tasks, build clear systems, manage your resources, and balance your workload, you will develop the wisdom needed to handle busy periods with confidence at school and in future jobs!
Questions to get started
"When you have a long list of things to do after school, how do you usually decide which task to start with?"
"If a friend comes to you feeling overwhelmed because they have three different tasks due on the same day, what advice would you give them to help them sort out their list?"
Focused Virtues
The Focused Virtue for this session is Wisdom.
Wisdom gives us the insight to evaluate what is truly important, organize our commitments thoughtfully, and make balanced decisions about where to spend our time and energy.
Ask Yourself: "Can I grow in wisdom to evaluate my commitments, rank my priorities, and manage my time thoughtfully?"
Evaluate your options, focus on what matters
Skills Development:
Learning to set priorities and manage competing commitments takes careful reflection, clear tools, and genuine wisdom. Setting priorities well helps you stay calm under pressure, produce better work, and protect your personal wellbeing.
First, prioritise your tasks. Prioritising means assessing everything on your to-do list based on two key factors: urgency (when is it due?) and importance (how big an impact on my future does it have?). Wisdom helps you look past what feels easy or fun in the moment, focusing your energy on high-priority tasks first so you meet your goals without last-minute panic.
Second, use systems thinking to organize your commitments. A system is an organized way of tracking your time and tasks. Creating a simple, reliable system—such as a weekly planner, a prioritized checklist, or digital reminders—helps you see how all your responsibilities connect so nothing falls through the cracks.
Third, manage your resources effectively. Resources include your time, energy, materials, and support network. Wisdom means thinking about what resources a task requires before starting (technology, stationery, workspace), making sure you have what you need, and allocating enough time to complete it properly.
Finally, balance your workload. Trying to tackle an overwhelming pile of tasks all at once leads to exhaustion and poor quality work. Wisdom means breaking major projects into manageable steps across the week, balancing intense study blocks with proper rest, physical activity, and time for friends and family.
Case Studies and Questions
"Can you give an example of a time when you had to choose between doing something fun and finishing an important task? How did you make your decision?"
"How do you decide what resources—like time, quiet space, or help from a teacher or parent—you need before starting a major project, piece of homework or hobby?"
Case Study:
Salma is 13 and has a chaotic afternoon ahead: a History poster due tomorrow, a Maths worksheet due in three days, guitar practice for a weekend concert, a work experience application to fill in and jobs at home. Salma also wants to play online games with friends. How can Salma use wisdom to set up a prioritised list, allocate resources, and balance study with rest and gaming?
Useful Resources:
https://www.skillsbuilder.uk/universal-framework-steps/planning-step-8-prioritising
https://www.skillsbuilder.uk/universal-framework-steps/problem-solving-step-11-systems-thinking
https://www.skillsbuilder.uk/universal-framework-steps/leadership-step-5-managing-resources
https://www.skillsbuilder.uk/universal-framework-steps/adapting-step-9-balancing-workload
Guidance and Resources for Facilitators
At 13–14 years old (Year 8/9), students encounter a expanding array of competing demands from school subjects, extracurricular activities, personal interests, and home life. However, teenagers frequently struggle with cognitive prioritization, often treating every request as equally urgent or defaulting to low-effort, high-reward activities (e.g., social media, gaming) when overwhelmed. As a facilitator, your role is to guide them using the virtue of wisdom—helping them evaluate task impact versus urgency, design functional tracking systems, manage personal energy resources, and maintain a healthy, balanced workload.
Core Concepts & Background Information
To support your group effectively, draw upon these core concepts from the underlying skills framework steps:
1. Prioritising Tasks (Step 8 - Planning):
- The Priority Matrix: Teaching students to categorize tasks by Urgency (due date) and Importance (impact on grades/goals).
- Sequencing: Exercising wisdom to tackle high-impact, time-sensitive tasks first rather than clearing easy, low-priority items to feel artificially productive.
2. Systems Thinking (Step 11 - Problem Solving):
- Interconnected Schedule: Helping students see their commitments as an interconnected weekly system (school hours, travel, chores, study, rest).
- Tracking Tools: Encouraging the use of reliable visual systems (whiteboards, planners, digital calendars) to map out priorities clearly.
3. Managing Resources (Step 5 - Leadership):
- Auditing Needs: Identifying the time, materials, quiet space, and assistance required before jumping into a complex assignment.
- Energy Management: Recognizing that personal energy is a finite resource that needs to be allocated wisely across difficult and easy tasks.
4. Balancing Workload (Step 9 - Adapting):
- Pacing & Chunking: Distributing large tasks into manageable daily bites to prevent burnout.
- Holistic Balance: Wisdom recognizes that rest, sleep, exercise, and social connection are essential to sustaining focus and long-term academic success.
Overcoming Common Barriers
1. The "Everything Is Urgent!" Panic:
- Reframing: Students often panic when multiple deadlines align, feeling that everything must be done simultaneously. Teach them to pause and rank tasks numerically (1 to 5) based on deadline and weighting, tackling them sequentially.
- Prompting Reflection: "If you have three things to do tonight, which one causes the biggest problem if it isn't done by tomorrow morning?"
2. Avoidance Through Low-Priority Tasks:
- Reframing: Students often clean their desk or organize files instead of starting a tricky essay, telling themselves they are "being productive." Reframe this as priority avoidance; wisdom means facing the high-impact task first.
- Prompting Reflection: "Are you doing that task right now because it's important, or because it's easier than the essay?"
3. Classroom Activity: The Priority & Resource Audit:
- Provide students with a hypothetical case study containing 5 mixed commitments (e.g., Science test tomorrow, English book report in 4 days, messy bedroom, sports match tonight, friend's birthday gift to buy). Have them execute a 3-step wisdom audit:
1. Rank: Label each task Priority 1 (Urgent & Important) down to Priority 4 (Low Priority/Optional).
2. Resource Allocation: List required resources (e.g., 45 mins quiet time, textbook, parent lift).
3. Weekly Map: Slot Priority 1 and 2 tasks into specific time blocks, leaving clear space for relaxation.
Delivery Tips for the Session
- Model Objective Evaluation: Use visual matrices (e.g., Urgent/Important grids) on the board during group discussions to show how to rank choices logically.
- Normalize Saying "Not Yet": Teach students that setting priorities sometimes means consciously putting off low-priority items until high-priority ones are finished.
- Praise Wise Choices: Publicly acknowledge students who demonstrate thoughtful organization, trade-offs, and balanced workload management.